Kapas likes lots of brushing and petting, but on her own terms. Her terms are that we are bent in half on the couch while she dances around on the floor. Not comfortable but even if we get her to jump onto the couch she stays less than a minute.
At least that’s how it was until this week when I realized that what she really wanted was MY spot on the sofa. Once I gave that to her she slept next to me for more than an hour. Like I said, it needs to be on her terms.